I didn't really get the joke the first time I heard it, but after buying 40 acres of land, accumulating livestock, and helping my husband run a commercially-viable pheasant business for the past five years, I understand the joke. In fact, if you didn't see the funny side of your failures, you couldn't get up every morning and go to work.
My office and some work colleagues
I still have so much to learn that it sometimes overwhelms
me. As long as I can laugh at myself while I learn, I look forward to getting
up every morning. I thought I would share with you a little of what I’ve
learned so far, and let you laugh at it too.
1)
In the country, ‘washing your hands’ includes
everything up to the elbow, unless you’ve been gutting deer or helping a ewe
give birth. Then, it’s up to your armpits.
2)
This is the same reason you will be instantly cured
of biting your nails.
3)
Invest in a pair of rubber dungarees, the kind
dairymen wear when cleaning down the milking parlour. ALWAYS have them with
you. You’ll thank me later.
4)
You will find at least five uses for pig oil,
besides oiling a pig.
5)
In the country, there is no such thing as ‘good
clothes’. They may start out that way but I guarantee that the second you put
on a nice frock, one of your sheep will instantly roll onto its back and get
itself stuck in a hedge.
6)
On the plus side, fashion becomes irrelevant.
Feel free to choose clothes based solely on warmth, or to hem your jeans with a
stapler.
7)
You will have winter camos, and summer camos
8)
People know that you’re going to work because
you add a pair of earrings to your regular jeans and t-shirt combo, making it
‘dressy’.
9)
When you have to go into ‘town’ to pick up a few
supplies where non-country folk work and shop, you’ll notice an all-pervading
bad smell. Accept the fact that it is absolutely
coming from you - unless of course you shop next to a landfill site, open
sewer, or cattle yard.
10)
When buying livestock, steer clear of any breed
with the word ‘Mountain’ in it – they will jump any fence you build and you
will never see them again. ‘Hardy’ is code for wild, and ‘Easy keeper’ means it will
eat everything, especially after breaking out of its pen and into your neighbour’s
garden.
11)
You will sleep through cockerels crowing and big
tractors rumbling past your front door, but the tiny peep from a distressed
chick will immediately wake you up.
12)
You will expend more time and thought finding a
good farrier than you will a husband. It’s better to have a great farrier and a
half-decent husband than the other way round.
13)
You will never again be caught short trying to
find a loo / bathroom. Every hedgerow, field margin, and sheltered gateway is
your public convenience (accent on the “public” part if you forget to check for
walkers or farmers.)
14)
You will have no shame at restaurants or
friends’ dinner parties asking for any leftovers, and will go so far as to take
them out of the garbage bin. There is a food chain at your house. The Trickle Down theory may be weak as an
economic plan, but as a feeding program it’s faultless.
15)
It is also perfectly normal for the hostess at a
dinner party to take a break between courses to check on a ewe that’s lambing.
16)
When driving, you will note species of animal
for their edibility, not their cuteness.
17)
When forking manure or squeezing an abscess to
drain it, always keep your mouth
closed. (Please don’t ask me how I
learned this.)
18)
There is a “Law of Size” applicable to trailers
and greenhouses: whichever size you buy, you will wish you got the bigger one.
19)
Learn how to reverse your trailer, and practice
this skill before you need it. You do
not want your first time to involve a 35-point turn at the livestock market in
front of all the farmers. You will never live it down. Ever. The story will be told to your grandchildren by the farmers’
grandchildren.
20)
Hang out at your local feed store, market, or
fair – anywhere farmers are – and listen. Whatever jobs the farmers are talking
about doing is what you should be doing also. Remember, in farming, “All the
other kids are doing it!” is a reasoned argument.
21)
Don’t be tempted to try and civilise your
working vehicle. An air freshener is no
match for the smells in a country car, and you will only succeed in making your
car smell like wet dog and
strawberries. If you don’t believe me, you are welcome to put your head inside
my Land Rover at your convenience.
22)
Don’t be tempted to try and civilise your house.
Skip the potpourri, pick up 10 litres of Dairy disinfectant at the feed store, and practice acceptance.
23)
Get an iPod. Country life, though spiritually
uplifting and chockfull of great scenery, can be lonely. Many jobs around the
farm are monotonous. How hard you need to concentrate to shovel out kennels or
scrub buckets? This is your reading time.
Agriculture is a risky business, both financially and physically. It’s hard on your body. It’s hard on your mind too, because as another saying goes “Where there’s livestock, there’s dead stock.” You will lose animals you’ve fought to keep alive and healthy - newborns, and old friends. You will cry out of frustration, holding a flashlight over a stalled engine while rain pours down your back and a ewe is bleating for a sick lamb that you can’t find until you can get your stupid truck to move. You feel like the world and the weather is against you, and disease is rampaging through your pack or flock or herd. It’s a visceral, gut-wrenching, no-breaks-for-holidays-or-illness life.And it is the most rewarding thing I have ever done. I don’t know when to quit.
